A wedding shower just for the ladies? So passé. Dudes enjoy a nice occasion to enjoy delicious bites and sips just as much as brides, so why not host a couples shower for both partners and both sets of friends and family? The basic idea of a couples shower is exactly the same as a traditional bridal shower. Invite the relatives and buddies closest to the couple and pick a theme that represents some aspect of their relationship, their upcoming wedding or their interests. The theme is often the trickiest aspect of a couples shower. But keep in mind that there will probably be both sexes at the event.

Now I know every guy is different. Everybody likes different things. So don’t judge, just read. There is something for every type of guy here. So, check out 5 couples wedding shower ideas I love!

Classic Australiana with pies and beer

There are few things as Australian as pies and beer. So for couples with lots of different interests that won’t blend well, go for a classic Aussie themed couples shower. An outdoor venue works best with this couples shower, so look for a beach or public park. Ask everyone to bring a picnic rug and wine if they would prefer (or supply it yourself). Get some classic Krispy Kreme donuts, or cupcakes for after the pies. Or swap the pies for fresh pizzas delivered to the spot. Works for both sexes.

Hire a catamaran for the afternoon

Another thing very Australian to do is to get on the water. We are surrounded by some magical oceans in this country, so why not hire a catamaran for the afternoon (or day) and get your friends on board to enjoy champers and seafood (or pies and pasties and sausage rolls), along with some gorgeous rays, tunes and swims around Rottnest Island if the water is warm enough. Works for both sexes.

Relaxing Spa Theme

If you’re a couple who firmly believes the family that relaxes together, stays together, then a spa-themed couples shower might be a good idea. Rent a modern venue space. For entertainment, consider hiring a massage therapist, an on-demand nail technician for male manicures or pedicures or a yoga teacher. Keep the food spa-like as well with healthy snacks. Leave your mates remembering your commitment to relaxation with personalised robes or a pair of slippers. Or hang the expense and just book out a spa for the afternoon and treat everyone to a facial or massage. Works for both sexes.

Modern Rustic Garden Party

For lots of couples, being outdoors is neutral territory. Whether it’s taking in a sports game together or going for a sunrise hike, Mother Nature provides ample opportunities to bond, which is why an outdoor, gender-neutral, garden party-themed wedding show is perfect for many couples. Look for an event space with a large patio or garden space, preferably with lots of greenery and flowering plants (a historic home is a great option). Keep decor minimal, but set a dining area with flowers. Celebrate spring with a delicious green menu that might include roasted spring vegetables, pasta salad with veggies and nuts along with seared meat and fish. Have a personal chef come along to cook a barbecue for you all. Works for both sexes.

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Classic Australiana with pies and beer

Hire a catamaran for the afternoon

Relaxing Spa Theme

Modern Rustic Garden Party

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