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You’ve probably got a stack of questions about everything to do with getting hitched, so browse through the articles below for some answers that will help you make the right decision in creating your perfect day.

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FAQs

  • Simple answer - No. You need to have completed, signed and had witnessed a Notice Of Intended Marriage at least one month before you can get married.

  • If you have a passport, you’re sorted. If not, you will need to have a copy of your birth certificate and a drivers licence. Your ID must be seen by the celebrant before they can marry you.

  • Simple answer - Yes - If it’s within Australia. We are a representative of the Australian Government so we are not authorised to marry people in other countries.

    However, if you want to get married in Bali for example, we can marry you here in a very simple signing ceremony with you and two witnesses before you leave and then follow you to Bali for your big celebration.

  • Simple answer - Yes I will. Some celebrants do and some don’t so make sure you check with them if you want to play your music through their speaker on the day. Also check whether they will personally play the music or whether you’ll need to have someone else play it through their speaker. If you choose me, I will play it all.

Disney’s Craziest Weddings

Disney’s Craziest Weddings

From Gaston failing to notify the potential bride (Belle) or check if she even wants to get married through to acknowledging that none of the guests wore pants at Robin Hood and Maid Marien's wedding. I guarantee you that this will give you some good laughs.

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How To Have A Bridesman

How To Have A Bridesman

Most of us have best buds of a different gender, so when it’s time to assemble your wedding crew, you might be looking at a co-ed situation. For modern couples, asking a male bestie to be a bridesman or a female friend to serve as a groomswoman isn’t that uncommon - especially in same sex weddings. Nearly one in three of today’s couples are mixing things up big time when it comes to gender in their bridal party or wedding party.

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The Occult Truth Behind Weddings
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The Occult Truth Behind Weddings

The marriage ceremony teems with mythical symbolism. In ancient Egypt, a circle was considered a symbol of eternity; this morphed into the wedding ring to represent an unending union. “The ring,” wrote occult scholar Manly P. Hall in The Secret Teachings of All Ages, “has long been regarded as the symbol of attainment, perfection, and immortality — the last because the circlet of precious metal had neither beginning nor end.” The ring also derives from a coiled serpent biting its tail, representing a union of transcendent and worldly purpose. The earliest use of wedding rings appears in ancient Hebrew ceremonies, though the practice is also found in Greek and Roman culture.

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How To Propose To A Guy If You’re A Guy
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How To Propose To A Guy If You’re A Guy

While the classic proposal image is a man on bended knee, same-sex couples are free to (and very often do!) completely upend this tradition. When it comes to gay proposal ideas for two men, an engagement ring doesn’t have to be the centerpiece. If you’re thinking about proposing to your boyfriend, think about his personality and what would symbolize your relationship up to this point. If he’s the type to go for an elegant band, then it’s time to go ring shopping. Otherwise, consider a nice bottle of wine, a luxury watch or even a handmade token of your love to present at the proposal.

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Ways To Propose To The Person Of Your Dreams

Ways To Propose To The Person Of Your Dreams

There are some classic ways people have proposed to their loved one. The classic light plane flying over with message hanging out the back... a book chronichling the journey of love between two people (which my nephew did) and having candles and rose petals write the words out on a beach in Bali so that when you walk out onto the balcony at dusk you are presented with the words "Marry Me Steve" like I was proposed to.

But how about this guy, Ray Smith who spent 5 months proposing to his wife to be.

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How To Include Your Mum On Your Wedding Day
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How To Include Your Mum On Your Wedding Day

Mothers of the Bride are expected to be the calm in the storm on the morning of your daughter’s big day. But don’t forget how important you also are, and that goes for the Mother of the Groom too. Here’s what to remember on the big day.

The Mother of the Bride is the best person to take charge of events at home helping to make sure the bride remains calm and relaxed.

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Fun Wedding Vows For Modern Couples
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Fun Wedding Vows For Modern Couples

If you are thinking of writing your own personal vows but are unsure where to start, we recommend taking your favourite examples out of this list of fun vows and reworking them with personal anecdotes and stories to make them unique to you as a couple. Be sure to include other references, traits or hobbies the pair of you share, and ones that can be appreciated by those in attendance. This will make exchanging vows a more enjoyable, personal experience.

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How To Propose To A Girl If You’re A Girl
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How To Propose To A Girl If You’re A Girl

First of all, if you’re a woman in a relationship with another woman, then, by default, there will be a woman doing the proposing. And why not let it be you. There’s no rule as to which one of you it should be is there. And think about it - there’s lots of excitement, planning and loving declarations involved in just about any proposal, so why not go ahead and do it. And, even if your fiancé has already proposed to you, there is no reason as to why you can’t reciprocate down the track when they are not expecting it, so that they also have a special moment to remember forever.

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What To Say After “I Do”

What To Say After “I Do”

So what do you say? Firstly, find yourself some quiet time, well before the wedding so that you are not rushed and panicky because you need them down.  Now, when I say "well before the wedding", I realise that in some guy's heads that will mean "the night before", because on the morning of, would be considered too late (by everyone on planet earth)! So let me be clear.  This is NOT what I mean.  "Well before the wedding" means a month or two.  So that if you don't get it done the first time, you still have time.  Yes, I know that most guys will then put it off until the night before the wedding.

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How To Have A Groomswoman

How To Have A Groomswoman

A lot of us have best friends of a different sex, so when it’s time to choose your wedding crew, you might be looking at a mixed sex situation. For modern couples, asking a female friend to serve as a grooms-woman isn’t that uncommon. Nearly one in three of today’s couples are mixing things up big time when it comes to gender in their bridal party or wedding party.

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What Sort Of Ceremony Do You Want?

What Sort Of Ceremony Do You Want?

Do you want it to be formal or casual? Do you want it to be indoor or outdoor?  What if it rains?  Do you want to involve family and friends in readings and rituals?  Are there kids to be considered? Or is it all too hard and you just want to elope after reading the first few questions of this article!

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